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If you are dissatisfied with the response provided you can It is mental illness, do you lot get it "illness". With 35.000 suicides per year, it is not the lady who had a problem, but the society which is inducing people to suicide. I know about this and how the mind will not allow rational thought, how all help means nothing and life is pointless. Thoughtless, yes. I'm sure they're terribly rattled, though. A mix of what's trending on our other sites, Japan reports 13,950 new coronavirus cases, 1st foreign cruise ship in 3 years arrives in Japan, Japan births hit all-time low in 2022; below 800,000 for 1st time, 'Paper City': The untold story of the firebombing of Tokyo in World War II, Putin orders Ukraine border tightening as drones hit Russia, Japanese Americans who won redress, now fight for Black reparations, Musk accuses media of racism after newspapers drop 'Dilbert' cartoon. I am absolutely amazed how many people on this message board knew the deceased person. No one as far as I can see is accusing suicides in general or this woman in particular of being malevolent. (Audio in Hindi)NDTV is one of the leaders in the production and broadcasting of un-biased and comprehensive news and entertainment programmes in India and abroad. Then again, she may not have been depressed at all. the guy then got stuck between the platform and the train and it was a huge mess, he said. Another sad and quiet tragedy unfolds. Had police been observing her, they would have approached her because of her behaviour., The coroner said: At this stage, Melsadie is becoming rather frustrated and upset with her. Woman killed by oncoming train in Bensonhurst: NYPD. 'When she was well, we never had confrontations, the only time we argued was when she didn't want to take her medication. We should never condemn the mentally ill this way because it causes trouble to passengers etc. The views expressed in the contents above are those of our users and do not necessarily reflect the views of MailOnline. DS Rees confirmed that such an arrangement had been agreed, before taking the hearing through the hours leading up to Ms Redmond's death. I wouldn't be surprised if some of those injuries were from bone fragments or other parts that came off from the impact. I feel very much sympathy for the woman but after knowing that her family will have to PAY to the train company, (possible all other damages, compensations for other victims? I understand it completely. She needed help, and should have had easy access to it -- no one debates that. I don't care what people say about Trains its a very painfull way especially if you survive. I am so sorry for this poor soul and the people affected, particularly the poor driver who had to witness this. Train-related accidents may not be common, but they occur in New York City. Somehow she wasn't up to speed, couldn't get with the program. The only selfish people are those who criticised this poor woman.Please show her and her family some respect. 'It was completely out of the blue, it scared me. @BurakuminDes - I take your point, and I think anyone rational would agree with you, but I also think when you get to the point that you are thinking about diving in front of a train you are probably beyond rational thinking. Do you know how much money her family is going to have to pay to the train company for this? Very sad. The much-in-love couple married and moved to Manchester in the UK in July 2005. On Monday afternoon, a woman in her 20s, whose name has not yet been released, died when she was struck by Amtrak Train 93, according to rail officials. Going to the top of the building could set off certain alarm bells, so to speak, and someone might notify the authorities or someone else and the person might be talked down. 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I've been close enough to the edge that I remember feeling nothing but fear, just being scared to hell, and debilitating sadness. Suicides usually choose JR over other lines as 100kph trains thunder through the stations. Or do you think it's more 'compassionate' to just tut-tut and let the suicidal get on with it? The posts that are concerned about the effect on others (the people who were injured, the people who had to witness what happened, the families that have to cope with the aftermath, etc - No, I don't think expressing concern for those people is selfish. We want our comments to be a lively and valuable part of our community - a place where readers can debate and engage with the most important local issues. The lives that are always involved, the innocent people that have to suffer because the person wants to go out in style. Join the leaders of English Education for Children in Japan! This is amazing!! I don't know the severity of that woman'situation, so I can't say what pushed her over the edge, but I doubt she had any people she could be open with or even had a shoulder to lean on. Morre and more we see a lack of empathy for those who suffer.Modern society? CHENNAI: A 36-year-old woman attempted suicide by jumping in front of an EMU train with her 4-year-old son near Urapakkam on Thursday. The MTA confirmed that somebody was hit at the station and that 1, 2, 3, 4 and 5 train service was affected by the ensuing emergency response. Our DIY expert, Beth Allen, founder of HIP Chicks (Home Improvement Project Chicks), knows which tools you need to take on big projects by yourself. Just weeks before her tragic railway death, the family of four had returned to their flat in Merton Road, Slough, Berks., following a 'wonderful' Christmas spent with friends in Manchester and Scotland. Because you have compassion for those who commit suicide doesn't mean you don't also have foranyone who has had to witness and deal with it. The identity of the woman is unknown at this time. Of course if professionals could have reached this person first the outcome may have been different. Wrong signal. It is six minutes after she places herself onto that platform that she places herself in the path of the train.'. Following a scan, the couple were overjoyed to find out their prayers had been answered and they were expecting a little girl. tired of the traffic backed up from suicides? I bow to those with deep enough compassion. I saw this on the news this morning, and it was truly horrible. Samaritans | Every life lost to suicide is a tragedy | Here to listen. Describing the CCTV footage, DS Rees told the inquest: 'Her behaviour, as a police officer watching, was not normal. My friends husband died last year through suicide. @steve@CPFCJUL. So, after that experience I'm not so keen on excusing those people. Loan compamies that are often yakuza-backed and will hound someone no end.) Everyone here is making very very good points - but then everyone here (I am presuming!) She was caring and a good mother. The 26-year-old woman has been identified as Sonakshi Garg. No counseling available in this country? . Yesterday Mr Yabani said: 'She kept saying 'this country doesn't want me' and 'nobody wants me here. been late to work three times this week because of suicides? But she couldn't be part of that society, could she? It is always good to be prepared for this happening to anyone close to you as this is so hard and frustrating to deal with. I'm glad to see some compassion being expressed; who knows what unspoken burdens people carry around. The unidentified woman was observed leaping in front of a. Once in a while they have a 'mental health awareness week' where they bring in a few more people to operate a hotline for people thinking about suicide but the bottom line is they need to do more. It is important that we continue to promote these adverts as our local businesses need as much support as possible during these challenging times. . I was in a rather cynical mood while typing that out in a frenzy. And the number is increasing - the year before was around 30.000. Spend some time reading up about mental illness and especially depression. The following service changes were implemented, according to the MTA: If you or somebody you know are having suicidal thoughts call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-TALK (8255) or call 1-888-NYC-WELL (9355) to speak with a counselor. If anything, it was cowardice more than selfishness. She had to have felt some pain there. A Gannett Company. Shortly afterwards, Ms Redmond and Melsadie were seen to enter Taplow stationand the pair remained at the station for around 20 minutes. Firefighters responded to the station around 5:45 p.m., and EMS pronounced the woman dead on the scene, officials told Patch. Chiyoda-ku I think it is wrong and low class to criticise someone who found that this was the best thing for them. There is something seriously wrong with a lot of peoples thinking here and i think you need to add a bit of humanity and empathy to your souls. I place it on the society that failed to recognize the symptoms of her impending self-destruction (or worse, chose to ignore them), the cultural history of seeing suicide as a viable option to ending one's problems, and the lack of support in general for the prevention of suicide and the need to change this ancient mindset. Ms Redmond then brought Melsadie back over the gate to the public area of the platform, before returning up the stairs to the bridge over the platforms. US firms waiting in the wings read to pump 'billions Parents' fury as schools STILL won't tell them if they are closed tomorrow as teacher strikes continue. According to CCTV footage, she was waiting for the train's arrival and at 3 pm, she jumped in front of a running train. The 27-year-old was seen with her daughter Melsadie Adella-Rae Parris at Taplow station in Buckinghamshire on February 18, 2019 for one hour and 12 minutes before their deaths. 'I noticed a woman in a white jacket back away and start running across the platform.'. For that you are lucky. Perhaps you propose a fine be imposed? 40.680481 -73.843731. As for the deceased person, as we do not know anything about her, it is a little early to judge her motives. On the day she had received news that some of her debt burdens had been relieved, if she had entered into a payment agreement which she did, and she was supposed to have started a new employment so her financial situation was potentially going to change.. In a startling incident at the Dadar station Maharashtra's Mumbai, a woman jumped before a train. The Government try to hire more psychologists, but they are never enough; they address the symptoms, but eventually miss the root cause of the problem. We can expect more people to commit suicide if they feel they can't survive in this country. it has NOTHING to do with it. Yubaru: "But seriously here, counselling is available for those that look for it. The most difficult thing is watching your loved one getting worse and worse and being so helpless to do anything about it. The investigation into the woman's death is still ongoing, police told Patch. Pathologist Dr Rezan Guardi confirmed that the woman died from multiple injuries. If you must kill yourself, put your affairs in order first and choose a method that doesn't leave a gory mess. There are few posters on here who don't say it's a shame she did what she did, and that it's horrible she reached such a point where she felt this was the only option. If you want to feel preachy you can even require psychological counseling but give them some out of the way place to do it. By The . Thank You. Female carer who bit off part of a pub landlady's ear during vicious bar brawl is jailed for 14 months. "There was no criminal activity. British Transport Police subsequently declared the deaths a suspicious incident. Cleo - would you agree that the definition of selfish could also be applied to the people here who are lacking in consideration for someone who was pushed to the ultimate extreme of taking her own life? I find it utterly ridiculous that people call this woman "selfish" based on the fact that she somehow, in her morbidly depressed state of mind Selfish? There are hundreds of ways you can kill yourself without involving the public. The inquest heard that a member of the public who was walking down the stairs briefly paused to look at Ms Redmond, but then moved on. On January 2 2018, the couple went to the Royal Berkshire Hospital for a baby scan where they were told the infant was 'small' and may have a facial deformity. The inquest heard how the 39-year-old had previously aborted a child - without her religious husband's knowledge - in 2012 after discovering the baby could be born with an abnormality as a side effect of her bipolar medication. Take the quiz: How well do you know LIV Golf? Not one of you seem to consider that maybe this woman had fallen into depression due to the current situation caused by TEPCO or the Earthquake / Tsunami. The only selfish people are those who criticised this poor woman. Bihar News: - . why? The 27-year-old was seen with her daughter Melsadie Adella-Rae Parris at Taplow station in Buckinghamshire on February 18, 2019 for one hour and 12 minutes before their deaths. The eight-months pregnant woman bought herself a ticket before running across the platform and jumping in front of a non-stop intercity train which sped through the station at 115mph - instantly killing her. However, it doesn't excuse what I feel is an overwhelming atmosphere herein - that people are criticizing that woman for not thinking about the aftermath of her suicide. A Long Island Railroad train bound for Rockaway Beach was gliding into the East New York Station at Atlantic Avenue and Manhattan Crossing about 5 o'clock yesterday afternoon when the. There is SOME counselling, but it's still woefully inadequate and carries a certain stigma with it. All of you who said "she was selfish" knew her right? A mother who was behind on her rent and bills cradled her three-year-old daughter in her arms and jumped" on to train tracks, where they were both killed, an inquest has heard. If you have a communicable disease it can't be helped and you need to get treatment, but it doesn't excuse you if you intentionally infect others. Sorry to sound flippant, but every life lost is (often) another 3,4,5 scarred. And even in death she's seen as a big fail by some here. Key Highlights. They also default on life insurance (which I think goes to the company, but not sure on that one). But before that can even happen, the stigma in society of seeking help needs to be broken. |. That said, to declare that her act was selfless is a little much. . ( ) A. bad B. badly C. good D . Let us support getting your first car loan here in Japan. They do not dwell on the horror and get on with their lives. At this low point rational thinking is almost gone, the main thing is to end the life. Mr Wade said: 'Melsadie is pretty well behaved. . And then, once they are gone, the constant wondering of "Could I have done more?" She later made a number of phone calls, including one to her prospective employer and another fairly lengthy call with her landlord, Hightown Housing Association. Commenting on the CCTV footage of Ms Redmond, DS Rees said: Her behaviour, as a police officer watching, was not normal. According to investigators, the woman, believed to have been aged in her 40s or 50s, was standing on the third platform at Shin-Koiwa Station at around 10:00 a.m. She then moved to the edge of the platform as the Narita Express airport service approached, on schedule, at 10:04 a.m. and threw herself in front of the train, which was travelling at around 110 kph. An EMU train with her 4-year-old son near Urapakkam on Thursday scared me inquest. 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